[XFRM]: Kill excessive refcounting of xfrm_state objects.

[XFRM]: Kill excessive refcounting of xfrm_state objects.

The refcounting done for timers and hash table insertions
are just wasted cycles.  We can eliminate all of this
refcounting because:

1) The implicit refcount when the xfrm_state object is active
   will always be held while the object is in the hash tables.
   We never kfree() the xfrm_state until long after we've made
   sure that it has been unhashed.

2) Timers are even easier.  Once we mark that x->km.state as
   anything other than XFRM_STATE_VALID (__xfrm_state_delete
   sets it to XFRM_STATE_DEAD), any timer that fires will
   do nothing and return without rearming the timer.

   Therefore we can defer the del_timer calls until when the
   object is about to be freed up during GC.  We have to use
   del_timer_sync() and defer it to GC because we can't do
   a del_timer_sync() while holding x->lock which all callers
   of __xfrm_state_delete hold.

This makes SA changes even more light-weight.

Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>